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Message to a Friend
August 12, 2008, 7:35 pm
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There are no words that I or anyone can say that will lessen the pain.  There are no gestures that will bring your mother back. There is nothing on this Earth that can help the human mind understand the loss. We are simply meant to accept and cope. The void is never filled and the passage of time is the only defense against the emptiness we feel inside.

I am so very sorry for what you are going through. Please know that you are loved by some many people in so many places on so many levels. The very gift that you have given to so many others will be returned to you a hundred times over. You are a shinning light in a sea of darkness. You are in my thoughts and prayers dear friend. I love you dearly and wish you peace always.




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Hello Sean,I have read ur message that u wrote to ur friend. I can feel it so deep that word down into my heart because my friend has lost his mother too because a cancer.
I am Priskila, from Indonesia, 22 yo, and I really love to be ur friend if u don’t mind.
Nice to know you, Sean. May Jesus blessing u always. Thank you.

   Priskila 08.14.08 @ 6:45 am

There are no words that can ease the pain. When i lost my dad 2 years ago i lost my best friend. My heart is still missing him.

   Linda 08.15.08 @ 3:41 pm

That’s very touching.I remember the feelings when I’ve lost my mommy Mercie( actually my friend’s mom dat I considered my own).Losing someone we love is the most overwhelming experience.

   Apple 08.16.08 @ 9:28 pm

Hi Sean,

My husband, Geno died last November 18, 2007 of lung cancer. And yes, I still miss him. And a week ago, my scuba buddy, Mike died while scuba diving in Cebu. I felt sad,too.

Yes, I must accept it and cope.
And I know time heals. I remember when my eldest sister, Tessie died of an accident 25 years ago. It pained me for almost two years. But now I accept it and had cope with it.
My love for them is always within me, though … forever.

Thanks Sean. And have a good day!

All the best,
Wilma

   Wilhelmina 08.17.08 @ 7:37 am

nice story!it’s an inspirational to all people wo undergo suffrings,and make them realize that they are not the only one wu suffer,but der are some people wu battled evryday in any circumtances-like you!u far from away and still have courage to fight the loneliness.i salute you,becouse ur working abroad,just to alleviate the……thanks!….

   jun 08.19.08 @ 7:25 pm

I’m very happy when i’m registed in FRIENDSTER.I want to write much in this page blog but i don’t know anything to write. Can you show me?
HONG

   hong 08.20.08 @ 5:51 pm

Hello Sean!
I’m really imprressive with your message!
I have some same feeling!
It’s my pleasure to be friend with you!

   Ultra 08.23.08 @ 10:58 am

My mother died 4years ago of heart attack after my brother died in accident…
Last January my father died of lung cancer.
There are no words that can ease the pain…fight the loneliness…I still missed them…
Thank you Sean.
GOD BLESS YOU.

   Honey 08.25.08 @ 7:58 am

I feel for him/her.. Losing my mom was really hard to deal with.

it still is…. (sigh) i miss her

You’re such a nice friend sean. I hope he/she will be able to accept it and have peace by then.

   jay 09.10.08 @ 9:57 am

Lossing my Sister,my best friend and my adviser was very hard for me to accept…Especially that she left 2 small children(Niece)that time..Her children are already grown but looking back…Still hurts and i really missed her.She was working as a Registered Nurse and loves her job so much…and she’s only 35yrs old that time we loss her..All i do now is pray to God for pease and help me deal with it…So i feel for your friend Sean…God Bless!GLO

   gloria3 10.05.08 @ 11:04 pm

Losing is one of the hardest thing to endure in life. Even though we know that letting go will make things better for the other person, it still pains to know that there won’t be anymore time to spend with him or her here on earth and what we’re left of to treasures are just memories.
My dad died of cancer few years back. It was devastating hearing he’s gone and evenmore, not having had a chance to pay my last respect coz I was halfway around the globe and time and money were major issues then. My only consolation was I was able to fly back home couple of months before he passed away…was able to talk to him, take care of him, kiss him and hug his frail but still warm body. Somewhere in my heart and mind whispers though that it could be the last moments for us to share together. Sure enough, it was!
It was the biggest test our family had ever. But we have learned to accept and trust that he is in a better world…where he feels no more pain…in peace…and that one day, we will all be reunited again in the bossom of our Creator!
Needless to say, WE STILL MISS HIM!

   bhebmanuelcanas 10.13.08 @ 7:00 pm

I can’t describe the pain when i lost my best friend, it felt like im in between heaven and earth collapsing…………i’m still in pain, especially now that im suffering from deppression….

   olgajanie 10.14.08 @ 3:03 pm

sean,

you know what, i know what your going through., nut don’t worry everything will be fine. just be there for him/her. show him/her that you care for her.

just remember i’m a friend that you can count on.

   mylittleprince14 10.22.08 @ 3:47 am

truly a loss is a loss,a part of us will never be complete because of this loss. i lost my grandmother a year ago,it has been and still is a struggle for me to cope with her loss.being thousand of miles away from home and having been the only eyes of the family back home to personally see her go, has been the hardest thing, it was and it still is.its only God’s grace and guidance that has been pulling me out of that drainage,each time.

   forgiveand4get 10.30.08 @ 10:48 pm



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